An appeal by our Freedom Friendly Journalist.
Tanith Carey who is definitely spreading our message wants to write an article about a young woman who will talk about being victimised/bullied over the internet/Facebook by a dominator .
Can anyone help her?
Tanith says
‘I appreciate they may only want to talk anonymously - but for me the most important aspect is the psychology behind it.
I'd like to hear first hand about the vulnerabilities the dominators exploit - and how they have access to more women over the internet’.
tanithcarey2003@yahoo.com
Friday, 23 March 2012
Thursday, 15 March 2012
JOB VACENCY
JOB VACENCY
Warwickshire Domestic Violence Support Services
Groups Development Worker
Local Domestic Violence service is seeking someone with experience of working with victims of domestic violence in one to one and group environments to join their team.
Based in Rugby the role is countywide and will necessitate travel.
20 hours per week - Salary £23,000pa pro rata
For application pack contact Corinne on 01788 537112 or email for pack to corinne@warksdvss.org.uk
Closing date 26/3/12
Interviews w/c 2/4/12
Warwickshire Domestic Violence Support Services
Groups Development Worker
Local Domestic Violence service is seeking someone with experience of working with victims of domestic violence in one to one and group environments to join their team.
Based in Rugby the role is countywide and will necessitate travel.
20 hours per week - Salary £23,000pa pro rata
For application pack contact Corinne on 01788 537112 or email for pack to corinne@warksdvss.org.uk
Closing date 26/3/12
Interviews w/c 2/4/12
Friday, 9 March 2012
Sexual assault by an anaesthetist
I have just heard from a woman who was sexually assaulted by an anaesthetist when she was unconscious in a private hospital. She was waiting for an operation on her collar bone. He also administered a date rape drug. As a result she was confused for about 5 days and did not report it to the police. She challenged the hospital management but they denied anything had happened. She knew she had been assaulted because she was injured. She thinks he may have used an object.
We were wondering how many other women have experienced this. If it is widespread we can start a campaign.
Pat
We were wondering how many other women have experienced this. If it is widespread we can start a campaign.
Pat
Saturday, 4 February 2012
MEN'S PROGRAMMES
I have no men’s programmes planned at present. Men who want to improve can complete the Home Study Course but they should read the free chapters which are available to download on my site. Men who buy the books without doing this and consequentially have a tantrum will not get a refund.
However when I did run them I forbade them to say anything personal about themselves. The reason for that is because every abusive man believes his partner is causing him to abuse her. They honestly DO believe this. So they arrived on my courses expecting me to help them cope with this horrible woman who forced them to be violent.
Be warned that some programmes encourage men to talk about themselves. This means they can wind themselves and each other up! On my programmes they were ONLY allowed to talk about the Dominator.
If a man is in a relationship I used to insist that his partner was in the room so she could see if he was changing or not.
I always refuse to write reports for courts and social services. I take the view that only his partner can judge whether the course has worked. IF SHE has done the Freedom Programme she can see if he has stopped using abusive behaviour.
However when I did run them I forbade them to say anything personal about themselves. The reason for that is because every abusive man believes his partner is causing him to abuse her. They honestly DO believe this. So they arrived on my courses expecting me to help them cope with this horrible woman who forced them to be violent.
Be warned that some programmes encourage men to talk about themselves. This means they can wind themselves and each other up! On my programmes they were ONLY allowed to talk about the Dominator.
If a man is in a relationship I used to insist that his partner was in the room so she could see if he was changing or not.
I always refuse to write reports for courts and social services. I take the view that only his partner can judge whether the course has worked. IF SHE has done the Freedom Programme she can see if he has stopped using abusive behaviour.
FEEDBACK FROM A FREEDOM PROGRAMME
HOW DOES THE FREEDOM PROGRAMME CHANGE US?
WHAT CAN WE DO NOW?
I'm FREE – People believe me at last!
Buy what I want for me and kids!
Wear what I want!
Understand what makes an abusive man Tick!
I can breath without fear!
Can sleep at nights without crying!
Be able to relax! Slowly start to be strong
Being free to do what I want to do and go where I want!
Learn a lot about his behaviour gained an insight of DV
Opened my eyes
I can now wake up in the morning knowing I can carry on with my plans for the day and not worry what I'm going home to.
Make me more aware of domestic violence
have friends over (without them being run down)
Go to sleep with no stress
Come out of my shell, able to talk out about it
Make and cook food that I want, make cakes when I need to
Have children more relaxed and not walking on eggshells
Try not to blame myself for his mistakes
Meet a good man (non abusive)
Have things around with out it being a problem (e.g. at home)
Recognise that he has not got autism/aspergers deep down he's just abusive and asserting his power. Agencies believed him, but now I have the words to explain to them that his actions were abusive tactics
Not be yelled at down my ear
Can now understand and see the signs. Can now see that none of it was my fault. I didn’t deserve it
I can take my kids out and buy them things
Buy your own shopping what you want, without it being put back on the shelves
I can now wear make up and clothes that I feel makes me look good, I can go out and meet family and friends any time I choose.
WHAT CAN WE DO NOW?
I'm FREE – People believe me at last!
Buy what I want for me and kids!
Wear what I want!
Understand what makes an abusive man Tick!
I can breath without fear!
Can sleep at nights without crying!
Be able to relax! Slowly start to be strong
Being free to do what I want to do and go where I want!
Learn a lot about his behaviour gained an insight of DV
Opened my eyes
I can now wake up in the morning knowing I can carry on with my plans for the day and not worry what I'm going home to.
Make me more aware of domestic violence
have friends over (without them being run down)
Go to sleep with no stress
Come out of my shell, able to talk out about it
Make and cook food that I want, make cakes when I need to
Have children more relaxed and not walking on eggshells
Try not to blame myself for his mistakes
Meet a good man (non abusive)
Have things around with out it being a problem (e.g. at home)
Recognise that he has not got autism/aspergers deep down he's just abusive and asserting his power. Agencies believed him, but now I have the words to explain to them that his actions were abusive tactics
Not be yelled at down my ear
Can now understand and see the signs. Can now see that none of it was my fault. I didn’t deserve it
I can take my kids out and buy them things
Buy your own shopping what you want, without it being put back on the shelves
I can now wear make up and clothes that I feel makes me look good, I can go out and meet family and friends any time I choose.
Tuesday, 31 January 2012
Mothers for Justice http://www.mothers-for-justice.net
Welcome to Mothers for Justice
We are the campaigning 'voice' for everyone who has suffered an injustice with the corrupt judiciary system.
We endeavor, through our campaigns to bring out into the open the appalling number of injustices (particularly) those relating to child access issues.
Mothers protecting their children from violent, abusive fathers are being imprisoned. Residency is then switched to the perpentrator in order to appease the government with no thought to the child's welfare or needs.
An ANY Dad is better than no Dad policy be he a paedophile or violent thug...contact at any cost prevails.
Our serious concerns regarding our children's welfare is not being addressed. Courts are putting our children in extremely dangerous situations daily, we will not tolerate this abuse any longer. Please join us in our fight for justice.
We are the campaigning 'voice' for everyone who has suffered an injustice with the corrupt judiciary system.
We endeavor, through our campaigns to bring out into the open the appalling number of injustices (particularly) those relating to child access issues.
Mothers protecting their children from violent, abusive fathers are being imprisoned. Residency is then switched to the perpentrator in order to appease the government with no thought to the child's welfare or needs.
An ANY Dad is better than no Dad policy be he a paedophile or violent thug...contact at any cost prevails.
Our serious concerns regarding our children's welfare is not being addressed. Courts are putting our children in extremely dangerous situations daily, we will not tolerate this abuse any longer. Please join us in our fight for justice.
Saturday, 14 January 2012
Recommend Solicitors who are DV aware
Hi everyone
If you have received good legal advice from a solicitor who has had domestic abuse training please post their details on my forum so that others in their area will be able to contact them. Unfortunately I cannot invite you to name and shame the rubbish ones in case they sue me! However when THIS list becomes established it could encourage them to improve so that we can include them!
If you have received good legal advice from a solicitor who has had domestic abuse training please post their details on my forum so that others in their area will be able to contact them. Unfortunately I cannot invite you to name and shame the rubbish ones in case they sue me! However when THIS list becomes established it could encourage them to improve so that we can include them!
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