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Thursday, 3 October 2013

The Wigan Model A child protection success



The Wigan Model
A child protection success 


What is it?
A group of agencies working together to provide in an integrated coordinated intervention for families where children are endangered by exposure to domestic violence. 

What is the aim?
To educate and empower the mother so she can make informed decisions about her situation and that of the children. 

How does it work?

WAVE DV Centre in Wigan provide the Freedom Programme to any woman who needs support and information about domestic abuse. Most women who are being abused do not know what is happening to them and have no idea hew it is affecting their children. A recent study showed the 12 out of 16 women who attended the programme had their children returned from the care of the local authority.

Which agencies are involved?
The family courts refer women to the Freedom Programme. There are representatives from WAVE DV in court to support women who are known to them and to provide a pathway to the Freedom Programme from the courts for others. 
Social Care also refer women to the Freedom Programme. They instruct them to attend as part of the care plan. 
Local solicitors are also involved. 

Training and awareness raising. 
WAVE DV Centre provide brief introduction training events to 
judges, solicitors, social workers and NHS staff so they understand what the Freedom Programme offers. These professionals are provided with books to use one to one with their service users so they can spread the information. They also provide training to facilitate the Freedom Programme. 

WAVE now provide weekends for men who want to stop being abusive. 

Monday, 16 September 2013

As far as Self Help books go, this one has been the most productive in my life.

A review from a man who has read 'Living with the Dominator'

By Colin Mackay - See all my reviews
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As far as Self Help books go, this one has been the most productive in my life. It has enabled me to assess my situation in an objective way and began to prepare an action plan to get my life back on track.

Thursday, 5 September 2013

Congratulations to Stonham Domestic Abuse Service


All trainees who attend these events are given 'Freedoms Flowers', 'Living with the Dominator' and the 'Freedom Programme Home Study Course'.

The Freedom Programme for Professionals Training (Worcestershire)

In June 2013 Worcestershire County Council commissioned the Stonham Domestic Abuse Service to deliver a free one day training course to raise awareness of Domestic Abuse and The Freedom Programme. The training provides an insight into the structure and content of the Freedom Programme to help professionals feel confident supporting women to attend the programme. Attendees gain knowledge on how to access the programme and other Domestic Abuse support services in Worcestershire. The course includes a module on the effects of Domestic Abuse on children; and a survivor of Domestic Abuse shares her story and experiences of Domestic Abuse and the Freedom Programme. Professionals from a wide range of services have attended the training, including Housing officers, Fire Officers, Counsellors, Solicitors, Children’s Workers, Social Workers, Police Officers and Health Workers to name a few.

Since Stonham’s Freedom Programme for Professionals Training was announced we have received a huge response from professionals in Worcestershire requesting a place. In response to the high demand for places on the course further funding was awarded to enable Stonham to provide additional places on the course. This means that a total of 415 professionals will access the training in 2013/2014. Stonham are working with The University of Worcester (Centre for the Study and Prevention of Violence and Abuse) to ensure that the quality and impact of the training is fully evaluated and we look forward to reading their report in 2014.

Here are some of the comments from those who have attended the course:

“Excellent, really informative and relevant.”

“The trainers were fantastic!!”

“I wish I could have had this training sooner and will be recommending it to our service.”

“I learnt so much about myself and the programme on the day”

“I feel more equipped to recognise ‘signs’ and try to empower my clients to make a change.”
Telephone: 01905 756 277
Organisation: Stonham Domestic Abuse Service








Thursday, 29 August 2013

‘12 out of the 16 women had their children returned from care’


The Wigan Model
A child protection success 

What is it?
A group of agencies working together to provide in an integrated coordinated intervention for families where children are endangered by exposure to domestic violence. 

What is the aim?
To educate and empower the mother so she can make informed decisions about her situation and that of the children. 

How does it work?

WAVE DV Centre in Wigan provide the Freedom Programme to any woman who needs support and information about domestic abuse. Most women who are being abused do not know what is happening to them and have no idea hew it is affecting their children. A recent study showed the 12 out of 16 women who attended the programme had their children returned from the care of the local authority.

Which agencies are involved?
The family courts refer women to the Freedom Programme. There are representatives from WAVE DV in court to support women who are known to them and to provide a pathway to the Freedom Programme from the courts for others. 
Social Care also refer women to the Freedom Programme. They instruct them to attend as part of the care plan. 
Local solicitors are also involved. 

Training and awareness raising. 
WAVE DV Centre provide brief introduction training events to 
judges, solicitors, social workers and NHS staff so they understand what the Freedom Programme offers. These professionals are provided with books to use one to one with their service users so they can spread the information. They also provide training to facilitate the Freedom Programme. 

WAVE now provide weekends for men who want to stop being abusive. 

Friday, 28 June 2013

Men who want to become nicer men.


Men
I have arranged to provide a weekend for men who want to become nicer men. If enough people enroll it will be held in Wigan in November. Otherwise it will be in April 2014. Lunch and refreshments will be provided. 
There will be no charge but every man who attends must bring a copy of ‘Living with the Dominator’ and a completed copy of ‘How Hard Can it Be...? the Home Study Course for men. 

If a man is in a relationship I will not accept him on to the course unless he attends with his partner. She must also read the book ‘Living With the Dominator’ and bring it with a completed copy of the ‘Home Study Course for Women’ with her to the event. This means that everyone who attends must bring both books to use within the course. The online programme will not suffice. 

If you wish to add your name to the list please email or text me with both of your names. Do not telephone. When the event is confirmed I will message you with the address of the venue. The timetable is printed below on this blog. 

These strict rules apply.
Sometimes even though enough people have booked  places occasionally they do not all attend. I will not go ahead on the day if I do not have enough. Please make sure you understand this as some of you travel from abroad. 
No one is allowed to discuss any personal information during the course.
All mobile phones must be switched off. 
Anyone who does not behave in a pleasant, good humored and cooperative manner will be instructed to leave. 
I do not issue certificates and never write reports for courts or any other agencies. 

Timetable
Day 1
9.15. a.m Arrival and coffee. 
9.30. a.m.Introduction to the Freedom Programme. 
11.00.a.m.Coffee break
11.15.a.m.The Bully
1.00.p.m. Lunch 

1.45.p.m. Aspects of the Dominator. The Persuader, Headworker, Badfather, King of the Castle and Jailer. 
3.00.p.m. Tea 
3.15 p.m. Aspects of the Dominator continued
5.00.p.m. Finish

Day 2.
9.30.a.m. The Sexual Controller
11.00.a.m. Coffee break
11.15. The Effects of Abuse on Children
1.00.p.m. Lunch
1.45. The Liar
3.00 Tea
3.15 The Liar continued
4.30.p.m. Finish 

Sunday, 2 June 2013

If Freedom was a song

Last week I arrived in the office and found a letter tucked under my keyboard with a sticky note attached which read 'Amos, read this and let's talk. A'. I made a cup of tea, switched on my computer (which, as most NHS employees will sympathise with, takes a while to boot-up) and opened the envelope. 

The letter was written in blue biro on lined paper, the handwriting was feminine; looping l's and curling c's. It began 'How the freedom project helped me and my son'. It told the story of a woman who had suffered domestic violence, deprivation and starvation, mental torture and sexual abuse and had managed, with the help of something called the Freedom Project, to wrestle her life back from her abuser.

I spoke with Andrew, Chair of BSC and author of the sticky note attched to the letter. He'd been to visit the Freedom Project and told me how profoundly moved he had been and how a woman had given him the letter and told him to use her story. He encouraged me to go and see the project and find ways to support them.

I called Jacky who runs the project; we agreed to meet on a Friday morning.

I wasn't sure I had the correct address when I arrived at the Fredom Project; a small, post-war house on the Allenscroft Road. I'm not sure what I expected. I knocked tentatively on the door and waited. Jacky threw open the door and bustled me inside smiling widely and shaking my hand. 

I noticed the bright murals on the walls, the toys piled up in boxes, the still warm kettle and shabby but spotlessly clean floors that must have been paced upon over and over. Jacky launched in to a description of what the Freedom Project did everyday. She told me her own story of abuse, of courage and conviction. She told me about the women who entered this little home and the journeys they travelled. She beamed as she spoke and I wanted to hug her because women like Jacky radiate beauty and goodness. 

The Freedom Project supports women who have suffered domestic abuse. They understand that abuse comes in many forms and doesn't always leave bruises you can see. Their clients come from different backgrounds and have different needs. They are supported to recognise abuse, they are empowered to change their lives and regain confidence. They find freedom here I suppose, in this little house on a council estate in South Birmingham.

As we talked Jacky waved people passing by the window. She's a part of this community, a vital part and she's not going anywhere. Like many smaller organisations in this city, the Freedom Project needs support from bigger organisations like ours. The Freedom Project is fuelled by passion but requires nurturing to flourish. As commissioners, I believe it's our job to do that nurturing.

As I was leaving, Jacky pressed a book of poetry in to my hand, written by their clients. This was an annual leave day for me and I was going away with friends for the weekend. I left Jacky and took the book in to a coffee shop in Selly Oak as I waited for my brother to arrive. I flipped through the pages and found a poem called 'If freedom were...'

If freedom was a song
it would be lyrics from
Joan Armatrading
Tracey Chapman
Helen Reddy
All rolled in to one
It would be sung with a passion
From deep down inside
Each word would give a feeling
Of hunger and pride
We'd sing it out loud, in our houses, on the streets
And hope that cour collective voices would reach
All of you out there so you'd all hear the message
We are women, we are strong and don't ever forget it.

amos image Amos Mallard, Partnership Facilitator.